Faith vs. Fear: The Daily Choice
As you go through your daily life, you are presented with choices in your personal and professional lives. Every day, you make decisions, and those decisions are based on faith or fear; both require you to believe in the unseen.
As Lewis Howes aptly stated, “Faith and Fear both demand you believe in something you cannot see. You choose.” No matter which you choose, your choice will impact how you perceive yourself and how others perceive you. Choose you and embrace faith over fear.
Investing in Yourself: A Testament to Self-Belief
When you decide you are worth the effort, you signal to the world your value. It may seem simple and unimportant at the time, but that one action can have a huge ripple effect. Your belief and faith in yourself are evident in the attire you select daily. You deciding to invest in yourself is choosing faith over fear, and while it may feel scary making small shifts to choose you and put yourself on the “to do list” is be a testament to self-belief and self-care.
The Impact of Appearance on Perception
Wearing disheveled or ill-fitting clothes might suggest a lack of attention to detail, while a polished appearance exudes confidence and self-respect. For example, when you pay attention to your details, you signal to others that you are detail-oriented. It may also affect your confidence and the actions you take or pass on because you’re not showing up as your best self. Decide to choose yourself and embrace faith over fear. Find pieces you love and fill your wardrobe with outfits that give you energy and confidence and excite you to get dressed again.
Letting Go of What No Longer Serves You
When you wear clothes that no longer align with who you are today, you can appear inauthentic, potentially diminishing your confidence. Give yourself permission to let go of what’s not working for you and purchase items that help you expand your wardrobe. Wearing pieces that reflect who you are today can enhance your self-assurance, empowering you to pursue your goals and embrace new opportunities. Try exploring new colors and styles that feel authentic to who you are today and where you see yourself in a year.
The Ripple Effect of Showing Up Confidently
Over the years of working with clients, I have learned firsthand that when you wear old clothes that no longer fit, literally and figuratively, you may appear insincere, lack confidence, or feel small.
When you wear the same outfits on repeat or only black, you blend in with everyone else and miss out on an opportunity to be memorable. When you show up confidently, you reach farther, go after your goals, and take more risks. Your wardrobe and what you wear impact your personal and professional life. Choose you and embrace faith over fear. Give yourself permission to find pieces that light you up, feel authentic, make you stand out, and show up with confidence.
The Perfect Time is Now
If you have been waiting for the “right” moment to prioritize yourself, remember that the perfect time may never arrive. Faith in your self-worth today can transform how you feel and how others perceive you. Your clothing is more than fabric; it can reflect your self-value. Choose faith and self-worth, and embrace the opportunity to present yourself authentically and confidently.