Change is hard, especially when it comes to your wardrobe. As a stylist, I encourage my clients to try new pieces, but I understand that stepping out of your fashion comfort zone can be daunting. It’s easy to get into the habit of repeatedly wearing the same outfits. Research shows that humans naturally choose what’s easy and familiar. As a result, you will automatically reach for the same clothes repeatedly, especially when they fit and currently for you.
A common challenge I see with clients is having multiples of the same piece. When a top fits well or a pair of pants feels just right, buying them in several colors is tempting. This approach works—until it doesn’t. You may suddenly feel stuck in a style rut, wearing the same pieces over and over.
Making Change Manageable
Embracing change is hard, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. The key is to make it fun and break it down into manageable steps. If you’re ready to find a new style, start with some research. Pinterest is a great resource for inspiration—look at outfits that catch your eye and see what speaks to you. If Pinterest isn’t your thing, check out catalogs from your favorite stores. Finding your new style can be fun. Pay attention to the pieces that interest you or make you smile, even if they’re a little outside your norm.
Try Before You Buy
Once you’ve gathered inspiration, it’s time to embrace change and try something new. Order a few pieces in different styles and sizes. For example, pick two or three tops and have them shipped to your home or a store where you can try them on. Experimenting with different fits, cuts, and colors is an important part of the process, so you learn what resonates with who you are now. You evolve and change over time, and your style and preferences may change, too. Finding your new style is a process.
Build a Capsule Wardrobe
Ultimately, creating a capsule wardrobe will make your life so much easier. Start with a small selection: three tops, three bottoms, and three layering pieces. Once you have the right versatile basics, you can mix and match them to create twenty to thirty outfits. When you pick ten to twelve pieces in a cohesive color scheme, the number of outfit possibilities is endless, but the first step is being willing to embrace change and try new things.
Be Patient With the Process
Only some of the things you try will work. Some pieces may not fit right or may look different than you expected. Be patient with yourself. It’s not you—it’s the clothes. The fashion industry has no standard sizing. Online stores have a more comprehensive selection than in-store stores. Don’t be afraid to experiment; give yourself permission to return things that don’t work.
Let Go of What’s Not Working
As you embrace change and explore new styles, remember that it’s not only okay but essential to let go of what’s no longer working for you. In fact, that’s often the first step in finding what does work. Your style has likely evolved, and what you loved two years ago may not suit you now. By letting go of pieces that no longer serve you, you create space for something new.
Finding your style is a journey, and it’s okay if it takes time. Give yourself permission to stand out, try new things, and make mistakes. Your wardrobe and style are a great way to express who you are, and it’s worth the effort to create one that reflects your authentic self.
Feel free to reach out if you need help or guidance on how and where to start. I am here to help.