Are You Settling for Feeling “Fine” in Your Clothes?
Recently, I worked with a successful leader and entrepreneur on an Update Your Look session. As we went through their closet, I asked how they felt about each piece of clothing. The answer was always the same: “fine.”
Here was a successful leader, yet they felt completely indifferent about their appearance. This feeling of “fine” wasn’t just about their clothes—it was about how they showed up every day in their life and business. They were ready to take their success to the next level.
What Does “Fine” Really Mean in Your Wardrobe?
Every day, you choose what to wear. Whether you decide to wear something that feels “fine” or fantastic, you are constantly sending a message about your confidence, success, and authenticity. You subconsciously hold yourself back when you settle for “fine” in your wardrobe choices. Clothes are more than just fabric; they impact how you feel about yourself and how others perceive you. If you’re showing up feeling “fine,” are you truly invested in your success?
When you wear clothing that aligns with who you are and how you want to present yourself, it can make you more memorable and help you attract the opportunities that are waiting for you. I like to call it The Style Advantage.
Why Wearing “Fine” Clothing Holds You Back
Clothes are a form of self-expression, and when your outfits don’t align with how you want to feel, they keep you stuck. Feeling “fine” in your clothes means you are not fully confident or authentic in your appearance.
When you choose clothes that feel uninspiring or uncomfortable, you also send the world a subtle message that you’re not ready for what’s next. Versus, when your wardrobe reflects your authentic style and aspirations, you show up with energy, confidence, and poise—ready to own every room.
How to Stop Settling for “Fine” and Start Showing Up Authentically
Here’s the key: Your wardrobe doesn’t need to be filled with expensive or flashy items to make an impact. It’s about finding what feels authentic and reflects who you are today and how you want to be perceived. Wearing clothing that makes you feel confident can actually boost your self-esteem and attract the right energy and opportunities. When you wear pieces you feel authentic and confident in, you will literally stand taller. It’s about making powerful small shifts in your daily actions.
When you get dressed, ask yourself:
- Do I feel empowered in these pieces?
- Do these clothes help me stand out as the leader or entrepreneur I am?
If the answer is no, it’s time to let them go and make room for what truly makes you feel unstoppable.
3 Ways to Stop Settling for “Fine” and Show Up with Confidence:
- Assess Your Wardrobe: Take a deep dive into your closet. Which pieces give you confidence, feel authentic, and align with your personal brand? If the answer is “fine,” it’s time for a wardrobe update.
- Be Intentional with Your Choices: Choose clothing that empowers you and makes you stand taller. It’s not about following trends but about wearing pieces that reflect who you are today, your values, and your goals.
- Let Go of What No Longer Serves You: The clothes you wear should help you step into your fullest potential. Let it go if something doesn’t spark confidence or align with your authentic self. Choose pieces that help you step into the version of you that attracts new opportunities.
Why Your Wardrobe Matters for Your Success
What you wear directly impacts your confidence, how you carry yourself, and the opportunities that come your way. Don’t settle for “fine.” It’s time to elevate your wardrobe and show up as the best version of yourself—authentic, unforgettable, and confident. Read more about this on the previous blog, How Your Wardrobe Can Help or Hinder Your Growth.
The Bottom Line: Own Your Style, Own the Room
Every time you choose to wear clothing that aligns with who you are today, you are choosing to step into your best self. Get ready to attract the right opportunities, the energy in the room, and a change in how people perceive you. No more “fine.” It’s time to own the room and show up confidently.
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Check out the previous blog, The Hidden Cost of Not Taking Action, or get your copy of my new book, The Style Advantage: I Say What HR Can’t.